Hope in the Labor of Living

My daughter Kylie and baby Hayden.
Photo credit Elle.Jae Photography 

Do you ever feel like living in this messed up world is just too hard?  Have you ever said, "I can't do this!"  Have you ever been so worn out and worn down by your circumstances that you just don't feel like you can endure one more painful thing?  If we had no hope, we would certainly feel like giving up wouldn't we?

I worked as an OB nurse for 8 years before working in the NICU, and I remember hearing the words, "this is too hard, I can't do this anymore", numerous times from women  in labor.  And having experienced labor 3 times myself, I certainly could relate! They say that the labor of childbirth is one of the most intense types of physical pain that there is.  That must be true because even Jesus uses the example of labor to describe the sorrow of life.

"When a woman is giving birth, she has sorrow because her hour has come, but when she has delivered the baby, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a human being has been born into the world." John 16:21 ESV

And those who have experienced pregnancy can attest to the fact that it is not just the labor that is difficult, it is the whole process of having a tiny human growing and developing inside of you.  The body goes through many changes.....many of which are not so pleasant!  Fatigue, nausea, joint pain, back aches, swelling, and many other symptoms are part of the process as the body is stretched beyond imagination! But haven't you also witnessed the "glow" of a pregnant woman?  It's true, there is a special glow of joy that undergirds every other physical symptom, and it is distinctly lovely!

The journey through pregnancy, labor and delivery would be almost impossible if it weren't for the hope of what was to come through it all.  The anguish is forgotten "for the joy that a human being has been born into the world" as Jesus said.  I can still distinctly remember those moments when I held my new babies in my arms for the first time, and how all of the memory of the pain melted away as I gazed upon their tiny faces and felt  the warmth of their little bodies next to mine. Just as the journey through pregnancy and delivery would be unbearable without the hope of what is to come, the journey through life would almost be impossible if it weren't for the hope we have in Jesus, and the promise of eternal life.

In the passage in John 16, Jesus is speaking to His disciples and encouraging them as they sorrow over knowing that Jesus would soon be leaving them.  But Jesus tells them that although they will experience sorrow, it would soon turn to joy and their hearts would rejoice as they look forward to seeing Him again.  He told them that no one would be able to take their joy from them.

What about that joy?  As Christians, shouldn't we, like a woman with child, be undergirded with that special glow of joy as we go through the labors of life?  Shoudn't we always keep it tucked away deep in our hearts as a constant reminder of what is to come?  But in all honesty, sometimes I get so caught up in how I am feeling that I tend to mask that joy that I have in Jesus.  I find myself saying, "this situation is just too hard....I want it to be fixed!"  Or I get so caught up in the busyness of life that I forget about the growing life inside of me....the life that is being transformed by the Holy Spirit in me.

The world can be a dark place.  We are seeing so many things changing and are experiencing the sorrows associated with the evil in the world.  I like how Paul states it in Romans 8:22-24 NLT

22 For we know that all creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time.

23 And we believers also groan, even though we have the Holy Spirit within us as a foretaste of future glory, for we long for our bodies to be released from sin and suffering. We, too, wait with eager hope for the day when God will give us our full rights as his adopted children, including the new bodies he has promised us.

24 We were given this hope when we were saved. 

So HOPE is our JOY.  Hope is what undergirds all other circumstances of life because we KNOW what is to come.  In the labor of childbirth, it is often helpful to concentrate on a focal point to get through a painful contraction.  The same holds true in the painful times of life....keeping our eyes fixed on the hope we have in Jesus gets us through each wave of pain. In the labors of life we can display the glow of joy and hope as we focus our eyes on Jesus and the promises of life everlasting where there will be no more pain and suffering....

"Turn your eyes upon Jesus, look full at His wonderful face

And the things of earth will grow strangely dim

In the light of His glory and grace"

So the old labor coach in me says, " YOU CAN DO THIS!  YES YOU CAN!  THE BEST IS YET TO COME!"

Kara 5/28/16

Kathy

                                               

Anxiously, I stepped into the church that day.  A Bible study class?  Was I really here?  I had a new friend, that's all I knew.  Another mom at the kids' swimming lessons had invited me to "this really great Bible study", and even though it was only July and the Bible study wouldn't be starting until September, my "Yes" stood firm in my heart.  I didn't understand it because ordinarily I would have found every excuse in the book to say "NO!" , but for some reason, I held on to that invitation and when September came around, I climbed in to my new friend Anita's car and off we went.

I know now that it was God who was drawing me near, but at the time, I was intrigued by this new laughter-filled friend and I wanted to meet more people like her.  My motive wasn't really to meet Jesus there, it was to meet new friends!  

As we gathered into the Methodist Church in Cody that day, there was a sweet red-headed lady teaching the class, and upon exploration, I realized that she was my dad's cousin Kathy Reed!  Being from a large family, I had never even met Kathy before, but I had come into contact with her family through my work as an NICU nurse in Billings.  Kathy's grandson Nicholas was a tiny one in our NICU for awhile, and a connection was made with his mom and dad almost by accident as I asked them if they knew any of my family members in Powell, (since they were farmers in Cody!).  To our surprise, we realized that we were distant cousins!  Coincidence?  Again, as I look back, I can see the sweet serendipitous sovereignty of God who was orchestrating a part of His grand plan for my life.  And as we know, He never orchestrates a plan just for one person's life without tendrils of purpose intertwining with the lives of others.  That first day, in that first church, with that first sweet red-headed teaching leader, became the first step on the journey of my faith in Jesus.  And not only did I find that I would make new and precious friends there, I found the greatest friend of all, Jesus Christ. 

But I want to talk about my precious friend Kathy for a moment.  Have you ever met someone and thought that they were too good to be true?!  Well, that was my first impression of Kathy. From the very beginning, I knew there was something very special about her.  At the time, I really never had studied the Bible before, and although I called myself a Christian, I really was guarded around Christians.  I had never been ridiculed or "judged" by other Christians, but for some reason I always felt inferior to them.  I saw them as a group of people that were a step above those of us who weren't really involved as Christians.  They seemed to have it all together, while I seemed to struggle with always thinking that the things I did in my iife were not quite good enough.  They seemed so sure of themselves and confident that they were doing everything right.  Well, that was my perception!  But Kathy, well she was different than all of the other Christians I had met.  She had this quiet and gentle way about her that made her easy to approach.  She had this humble way of relating to others and there was a warm glow that came from her spirit that drew me in.  I found myself trusting her every word and I began to think that if that is what a real Christian acted like, I wanted to be one!

I think God knows that His children need to be met right where they are at when they begin their journey of faith.......even if it means that He must allow people like me to fall in love with Him through loving another person first.  That is what happened in those first months of BSF as I listened to Kathy humbly deliver the lecture each week and introduce me to Jesus' love through her love.  She spent extra time talking with me and answering my questions, and she always made me feel so special as she praised God for how He was growing my faith.  I'm sure that I said some pretty juvenile things, but she always acted like it was something that was so profound!  You see, Kathy met me where I was at too, and she took my hand and lovingly walked with me to see Jesus, beaming all the way with her warm smile and gracious words.

Over the years, 16 1/2 to be exact (!), Kathy has become very dear to me and a big part of my life.  She has trusted God enough to invite me into leadership, and has mentored me in so many ways as I have sought to serve the Lord in BSF.  She has become someone who I would trust my heart with, and has laughed and cried with me through many of life's circumstances.  They say that followers of Jesus are connected in a unique and other-worldly way through His Holy Spirit, and I know that is true because so many times we reach out to one another through a phone call or text or email, because God prompts us just at the right time when we need each other most.  He has blessed us with like-minds and hearts so that we can be there for one another and pray for one another, and grow close to Him together.  I thank Him every single day, and sometimes several times a day(!) for His sweet gift of Kathy in my life.  And although her roles are changing a bit as she steps down as BSF Teaching Leader, she will always be one of my most precious treasures.  This life on earth is fleeting, and things are changing quickly, but one thing that we can count on for sure is that we will spend eternity praising God together, and I cannot think of ANYTHING better than that!  I love you sweet Kathy!

Faithful Servant

She runs around ragged

she searches high and low

she knows there is something more

something she does not yet know

He knows she is searching

He knows she is lost

So He sends His precious servant

for whom He paid the cost

His servant's name is Kathy

she is lit up with His light

He calls her His beloved

and He has made her right

She warms the world with her smile

she warms hearts with her love

She lives in the image of Jesus

turning hearts and minds above

He sends her to the lost

His servant obeys His call

and with His wonderful grace

she reaches out to all

The lost one wanders

looking for something real

and suddenly up ahead

His servant comes to heal

She meets her in her broken place

stoops down at her side

and whispers words of His love

saying, “there's no need to hide”

The servant reaches out her hand

and says, “Come and See!”

and with trust the lost one goes with her

right to the Tree

The servant introduces Jesus

who was once upon that Tree

which was made into a Cross

to set His people free

The lost one now sees the Light

which was once clouded with doubt

then the servant does something

that causes the heavens to shout

She places the lost one's hand

into His mighty grasp

and says, “now walk with Him”

you are found at last!

Well Done, Good and Faithful Servant of God!

Kara Althoff

May 6, 2016